[utils] Update traverse_obj() from yt-dlp

[utils] Update traverse_obj() from yt-dlp
* remove `is_user_input` option per https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/pull/8673
* support traversal of compat_xml_etree_ElementTree_Element per https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/pull/8911
* allow un/branching using all and any per https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/pull/9571
* support traversal of compat_cookies.Morsel and multiple types in `set()` keys per https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp/pull/9577
thx Grub4k for these
* also, move traversal tests to a separate class
* allow for unordered dicts in tests for Py<3.7